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Hindi Movies

Hindi movies have been my life.  I’ve grown up watching them, I’ve lived them, I’ve breathed them.  I cannot imagine myself without them - they literally have defined who I have become.  I feel that so many emotions that I have experienced in life can be found somehow in some way in a hindi movie.  I directly relate to so many bits in certain movies.  That being said, I haven’t really watched a love story hindi movie (not all hindi movies are love stories!) in a while… you kinda have to not scoff when you’re watching them and I kinda scoff when I do now… anyways I have a “Love” playlist on my mp3 that hasn’t really gotten a lot of listening to in the last year or so BUT this past December when my grandmother passed away and I was lying in Singapore on the hard floor with the fan on and my family around me… I started listening to this song above.
And I kept listening to it, day in and day out… on the mrt, on the winding roads to Malaysia, at night… etc.  The beginning of this song…it takes me to another world, one with love and hope and romance and dreams, a world I hadn’t really visited in a while.  It was nice there, but scary.  I want to be the girl who can still believe in all of this again and lol I guess just be innocent again.  I thought I would share this song with you guys.

Just Accept The Compliment Goddamit.

I don’t know what it is with girls.  We are SO different from guys!

129167033986932671Guys are used to pumping themselves up.  Their self esteem increases in direct relation to the number they’re bench pressing.  They feel good when they’re making money, when they’re working out, when they’re picking up chicks, and when they’re DOING things.  They have no problem promoting themselves and bragging or boasting about how much they’re benchpressing, how much they’re making, how many numbers they’re getting, how many chicks they’re doing and …you get the point.  It’s all very measurable.  Girls can have an amazing body and STILL be complaining about their fat arms or small boobs. 

When a guy gives another guy a compliment like: “your arms are getting huge”, the guy who is on the receiving end of the compliment accepts it matter of factly.  He does NOT do what girls do and reject the compliment “my arms are nice whatt noo no look at this it’s so jigglyyyy *shake shake shake*”. 

Why is it that girls have such a hard time accepting compliments?  Not only is it stupid to point out your flaws if you really believe they are flaws, it’s detrimental to your self worth and esteem.  TAKE THE COMPLIMENT – ESPECIALLY, and I cannot stress this enough ESPECIALLY if a guy is giving it to you.  Don’t let it get to your head, but just thank him and accept it.  The more you point out your flaws the more he’ll end up believing you!  It will slowly sink into his head and then he might be like ya that’s right, your friend’s ass IS nicer than yours, or ya you’re right your hair really is messed up.  It’s true.  Trust me.

To Be Understood

Sometimes you feel… Does anyone even know what you’re talking about?  Does anyone bother to read between the lines?  Does anyone understand you?  Is anyone out there?  Do they feel the same way as you?  Do they know where you’re coming from?  Are you talking to yourself?  Does everyone else just think you’re a freaking weirdo?

Sometimes you ask yourself those things.  I do all the time.  I think the biggest thing for people is to be understood.  You want someone to know who you really are.  You want someone to know how you feel.  You want to be understood.  There are a few people in my life who I think do understand me.  For some reason, I think I’m a pretty weird person and sometimes I wish I was normal.  I guess everyone is weird in their own way though.  For me it’s just that sometimes I wish I didn’t have the desire to do all the things that I want to do.

I wish I could be content being mediocre.

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Why Nice Guys Finish Last

EVERY GUY is supposed to be nice because humans should be nice!  Unfortunately most of the people you end up meeting or hearing about tend to be dirt bags and so when you finally do meet that one nice guy, you feel like you need to give him a shot just because he’s (apparently) nice.  That my friends, is the beginning of the end!  DON’T CAVE IN! 
Girls have a tendency to get confused and say “but he’s so nice” and then agonize over why they don’t feel any connection.  It has nothing to do with the fact that this person is nice, it’s just that you don’t connect with them!  You’re not supposed to be with someone just because they’re SUPPOSEDLY nice.
WHY DO NICE GUYS FINISH LAST?!!!!!!!!!!!!!
1.) TOO PASSIVE = I think “nice guys” are just too passive.  They very often don’t hit on a girl as much as a “bad boy” would?  Theory of mine.
2.) NO GAME = constantly texting and being available, “hey we should meet, hey what are you up to, hey how was the exam you told me about once briefly three weeks ago that you were going to write today and I still remembered because I’m a creepy person with no life and I want to impress you with how nice I am?”.  This is what I say in my head to people who do that: BUDDY RELAX!  It’s not that a girl wants a guy to play games and not text her back; a girl wants a guy who has a life!  You should really not be that available, it's a turn off (remember this all you clueless “nice guys” out there!).
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3.) Picture above: straight up!  A “nice” guy is really just a guy who wants to boink you and doesn’t have the balls or CONFIDENCE to say so.  "NICE" GUYS DON’T HAVE CONFIDENCE.  They don’t straight up ASK you to go on a DATE, instead they ask you out for coffee and/or pretend to be your friend first.  They cover up the intentions from the get go, thereby usually confusing the girl who doesn't automatically view you in that light.
4.) Pushovers.  "Nice" guys are known to be pushovers.  If I cancelled on a “nice” guy last minute with a lame excuse they’d be totally ok with it.  A bad boy would be like ok this chick’s a waste of time, screw her and move on.  A “nice” guy would be all understanding and say “it’s ok next time”. There’s nothing WRONG with being nice and with being understanding, but every time you allow yourself to be a second class citizen, girls realize that hey this person is ok with this type of behaviour and treat you like a second class citizen.  People don’t cancel on the Queen of England.  They shouldn’t cancel on you either.  If they do forget to call you back, or cancel on you, or whatever – screw em.

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