Like A Butterfly

“Each of us has that right, that possibility, to invent ourselves daily. If a person does not invent herself, she will be invented. So, to be bodacious enough to invent ourselves is wise.” – Maya Angelou
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These are just some examples of women who were beautiful both before and after but went through some pretty big transformations (both internally and externally) to become the butterflies that they are today.  The reason why I’m posting this is to show you that you should NEVER let anyone tell you that you can’t be something.  You can be whoever you want in this world, you're not limited to who you were yesterday.  You really can be whoever you want... although of course there is always a price to pay.

When I talk about transformations I'm not just talking about physically - yes to show the changes in someone I used the above pictures where they went through a physical transformation but emotionally you can transform and be whoever you want as well.  Don't let someone else's opinion of you be who you are.  You don't need to listen to anyone or be afraid that they are going to make fun of you.  They might...and so what?  Are you going to die if they do?  No right?  So effing what!!  Just because you were for example shy doesn't mean that you can't change and grow into who you really are and grow into being an outgoing amazing woman!

Women often admire other women who they consider to be beautiful women and think wow a.) they have such good genes b.) are so naturally beautiful c.) I could never look like that d.) you have to look like that to be a model/actor/girlfriend/whatever e.) their lives are perfect.  All those things are what we have been shown and what they want us to believe but really a lot of effort and hard work goes into making you think that , so don't think that you're any less than anyone else.  You too can be beautiful you can change from Norma Jean to Marilyn Monroe or from Rajiv Hari Om Bhatia to Akshay Kumar the Khiladi.  Don't doubt yourself!


If you can dream it you can achieve it :)