Eva Longoria & Tony Parker ---- OVER
“The only people who should really sin are the people who can sin and grin” – Ogden Nash
This is probably not how you expected this to open but: Remember how everyone used to go gaga for Jessica Alba? I was never that into her…sure Jessica was hot but she was always so BLAND at the same time. What’s her personality? Can she crack a joke? Have I ever seen her make an ugly face and still look pretty? Jessica Alba is vanilla. Kim Kardashian is HOT HOT HOT yeah (body wise) but that’s pretty much all she is… the ENTIRE PACKAGE WINNING HOTTEST CHICK AWARD has always gone to Eva Longoria Parker. That little lady is 5ft 2 inches of straight dynamite.
Kim has always been hot, no question but Eva is hot AND CUTE!
BAM. Dynamite. Need I say more? Ok so her hotness.. undeniable. Now the big question on everyone’s lips is: Why would any guy cheat (cheat= emotionally for sure/physically maybe whatever) on someone like…this:
For THIS!?!?……………
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It’s because THIS
I’m starting to think that it’s not natural for humans to be monogamous. In some way or another, whether it be through sexting or just plain sexing; I just don’t believe humans are monogamous by nature. Maybe some of you always knew this but I honestly believed that we were, that one man and one woman could be faithful to each other. My mindset has completely changed. That’s not to say that there aren’t relationships out there that have been and will continue to be monogamous for life (who are you and tell me your story!); all I’m saying is that it just might not be in our natural instincts and is a struggle. Sexual monogamy is having one sexual partner for life, forever! For example, a goose will not mate with anyone else, even if their partner dies. That is just not natural for humans! You and I both know that. Just because I’m saying this does not mean that I DON’T want a monogamous relationship. I DO! I wouldn’t be able to live with someone who had 100’s of text msgs sent to another woman while lying to me and not texting me, emotionally cheating on me with someone else, or having intercourse with another woman. Yea… couldn’t live with that. Team Eva.
Why do people cheat? It’s all economics. Costs… benefits… A male would rather look at your boobs and be caught checking them out than NOT looking and NOT seeing anything! I don’t believe that humans honestly think of the costs. Was it worth it? Was it really worth it…throwing away 3 years of marriage? Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock… he cried on tv, said he was sorry and then moved on with his life. Tiger… moved on. Tony… will move on. I just don’t think guys really care. 100% Tony isn’t sitting there regretting that he carried on the affair… he’s sitting there thinking “Why the eff didn’t I delete those messages!?” haha.
Maybe Eva and Tony weren’t meant to be and it was fate, and maybe they will be happier forever with other people and they’ll look back ten years later and be grateful that this happened because now they’ve found their “true love”… or maybe it has nothing to do with other people and everything to do with their own selves and their own personal growth and their own timing. Maybe people would be happier if they weren’t told how their lives were supposed to be: married to someone of the opposite sex, have children, live together forever, white picket fence, etc etc. One thing is certain though, tradition survives for a reason and hopefully one day I’ll find out why and I can come on this blog and say hey…marriage is awesome and here is why you should get married. Omg that is SUCH A SCARY THOUGHT. I’m going now.. bye!!!!!!!!!!!
Interesting...
ReplyDeleteI learned some new words like "Sexual Monogamy"...lol and now my thoughts.
From my experience, and just the way I live my life, I have never cheated, nor lied throughout a 7 year past relationship. Even though it sounds too hard to believe but I am being 100 percent honest and YES I love to brag about that fact. I am not even going to get into how my ex partner lacked these skills but rather speak on myself and what I understand and have always believed.
It has been 2 and a half years since the break up and I still have not hooked up, touched, kissed with anyone else. It's not that I haven't moved on or I don't want to move on but rather I always believed in just having "one". One was all I ever needed. If I was happy with one, why would I ever need more?
In my present day, I now am so lost, confused, and now believe that what I have always believed all my life was wrong because after all, one may be perfect and or believe in having one partner for life but that doesn't mean others feel the same.
I find myself in "LIMBO" now because nothing makes sense to me anymore. Was it wrong for me to be so honest and faithful? Was my belief a waste of time? I don't know but what I do know is, I have yet to meet someone who truly in their heart feels just like me. I don't even think people like this even exist anymore besides myself. Am I an Alien? Am I the only one left or something?
So my point is, I honestly do not understand why people do what they do and or why?. They just do it even though they know it's wrong. I am not going to make assumptions as to why because not everyone feels the same way or like myself. I just don't get it, I just don't understand "The Duniya" (people of the world)and will leave it at that.
It does feel good knowing that there are other people out there like yourself who are as much as confused as I am. All I ever wanted was to just be with "one" because that was all I ever needed. Now what?
If I could have one wish, it would be for the world to just be faithful and be honest. Lies, cheaters, and dishonesty have broken my heart and left it into pieces.
Thank you for your thoughts; hope you have enjoyed mine even though I am babbling on...lol
-Shawn "Dj Realest"
Wow, reading back over my comment feels like a therapy session. Thanks Sharin.
ReplyDeleteHey Shawn
ReplyDeleteWow thanks so much firstly for reading and secondly for taking the time to tell your story. I'm sure your words will resonate with many people as you've written honestly and from the heart so thanks once again. I'm not one to give advice but all I can say is... be true to yourself. Don't ever apologize for who you are or what your beliefs are and continue to pursue happiness. Focus on what makes you happy.
Thanks Sharin,
ReplyDeleteI felt really good after writing all of the above. It felt like a therapy session for me where I got to express how I felt. I think it's easier telling someone you don't know. I'm now thinking about writing out and blogging like yourself might be a good idea or I'll just continue bothering you.
You say your not one to give advice but you give me advice all the time and I think your great at it too.
A very interesting perspective. First of all, thanks for all the hot pictures. Good for eyes you see. :) Monogamy is just man made virtue. I do agree with what you say, when you say that Monogamy to exist as an absolute is impossible.
ReplyDeleteThanks for reading Aditya...as for the hot pictures... my pleasure:P
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