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Ok that was way too much negativity for one post. I’m drained.
I can’t stand…
Hypocrites and liars. Those are my two least fav types of people.
People who double dip, it grosses me out! It’s so rude and disgusting and I feel like puking. I’m sorry but I don’t want your slimy little germs on my tasty little taste buds.
When people say: “You’re so pretty, wow you don’t even look Indian”.. I mean what am I supposed to say in response? Thank you????? Is that supposed to be a freaking compliment that I don’t look like my race?? Cause my race is so freaking ugly? Screw you! I look Indian, this is what Indian people look like and I’m proud to look Indian!
I get so irritated when people ask me how much the product is plus tax. You see the price tag, you know how much our government’s tax percentage is, why the eff are you asking me? Do I look like a calculator? OR like someone who's good at math? No and no.
Girls who scream when they see each other. Or girls who swear a lot. I can’t stand girls who sit on their boyfriend’s lap on the Skytrain unless they’re in a big group of friends..for some reason then it’s fine. Girls who post stupid comments on boys walls just to show everyone that they hung out/are super tight (ex: “your bed is so comfy!”). Please, save such comments for text msgs not facebook walls.
I can’t stand Priyanka Chopra she is so hot but so irritatingly focused on being/looking hot it annoys me. Watching her movies is like watching a Nivea ad. Can’t stand Katrina Kaif either now that I think about it but at least she looks cute.
People who say on the phone “I’ll let you get back to what you were doing”… if YOU want to go, then GO! If I want to go, I’ll say so! Don’t “Let” me do anything, I’ll do whatever I want!
Racist people. Racist jokes. Sexist people. Sexist jokes. I don’t find them funny! Also while we’re on the topic, don’t say the N word!
People who assume that just because you live at home you have things easy/have no bills etc.
People who constantly ask me why I have my name/watermark on my pictures. For the record, it’s because I’m cool.
People who assume they know everything about me. You know diddly squat buddy ol pal!
People who comment on my clothes and say things like “Wow you must have so much time in the morning”, um no actually it doesn’t take me long to look this good ;) (not like I’m even this crazy dresser anyways? I usually rock jeans and a t shirt) On that note, I hate passive aggressive people!
People who state the obvious: “You’re not wearing makeup today!”.. “Your ears are so big!”… etc etc. Sniff, I’m just sensitive about my ears ok leave them alone they work perfectly fine until they have to hear your annoying voice screech.
Illiterate people. Go read a book!
Judgemental people. Example: “OMG look at that slut over there look at what she’s wearing”… whoa whoa whoa hold your horses! Just because she dresses like a ho... doesn’t mean she’s a ho??? She just likes to look like one (lol jk). Don’t call girls sluts! Go watch a hindi movie…girls are goddesses and you’re just jealous she can rock it and you can’t, and that you care what people think and she doesn’t!
Happily married couples. I’m jealous of you :(
People who constantly drop names and dollars into their conversations.
People who talk about money.. it freaks me out. I don’t want to know how much your house costs, how much you can sell it for, how much your jacket costs, how much dinner was… I just don’t think it’s tasteful.
Ok that’s all for now.. Part Two some other time.
You've got to climb to the top of Mount EverestI felt sick watching it because of Heidi Montag. She started off as a sweet girl, full of spunk and brimming with confidence. She looked fresh faced and cute… Now, she’s a completely different person! The allure of fame and living in LA has ruined her. How is it good television to see someone fall apart? I’ll admit it’s morbidly fascinating, and while that may help ratings, it leaves one with a bitter aftertaste in their mouth and that’s not good. I just kept shaking my head in sadness and pity when I saw Heidi and her mom having their conversation in Heidi’s hometown. I feel so bad for Heidi’s mom it’s crazy. I can’t imagine how she feels, to see her daughter change so rapidly over just a few years and morph into someone who has succumbed to the pressures of living in LA. It’s a horror story. The Hills is supposed to resemble a fairy tale, not a horror story! It’s become something that I would imagine a parent would show a child if the child said they want to become famous. “Do you want to turn out like Heidi Montag? Look what happened to her…it’s an evil world out there kiddo”
to reach the Valley of the Dolls.
It's a brutal climb to reach that peak,
which so few have seen.
You never knew what was really up there,
but the last thing you expected to find
was the Valley of the Dolls.
You stand there, waiting for
the rush of exhilaration
you thought you'd feel - but
it doesn't come.
You're too far away to hear the applause
and take your bows.
And there's no place left to climb.
You're alone, and
the feeling of loneliness is overpowering.
The air is so thin you can scarcely breathe.
You've made it - and the world says
you're a hero.
But it was more fun at the bottom
when you started,
with nothing more than hope and
the dream of fulfillment.
All you saw was the top of that mountain -
there was no one to tell you
about the Valley of the DOlls.
But it's different
when you reach the summit.
The elements have left you battered,
deafened, sightless - and too weary
to enjoy your victory.
- Jacqueline Susann, Valley of the Dolls
So my doctor had prescribed me these pills… and I just decided to read up on them 2.5 months into taking them…
Here are some of the things I laughed at:
I swear to God I didn’t just make that up lol. Wow. Thanks doctors and pharmacists for not telling me any of this! It was sooo not on the sheet that I was given but man I got a laugh out of this. Haha sooo bang on. Hahahhaha.
Destiny Child’s hit single..Say my name. What’s in a name??????? Saying someone’s name when you are greeting the person, is normal. Saying someone’s name while you are in conversation with them, or after you’ve already said your greetings, is a sign of intimacy. Saying a shortened version of that person’s name or a special version, is an even greater sign of intimacy. If you say “Hey Sharin how’s it going?”, that’s normal. If in conversation you say, “Sharin.. I don’t know.. I’m just… I’m not really sure what to do Sharin… I need some help deciding”.. it’s not REALLYYY normal. Normal would be “I’m not really sure what to do man/yo/dude” or “Hey.. I’m not really sure what to do.”. Saying “Shar.. I don’t know.. I’m just… I’m not really sure what to do Shar?”etc etc IS EVEN MORE INTIMATE. I’m not crazy! It’s true.
N what if you’re having physical relations with someone???? The only reason someone would say your name in the middle of a physical moment if they normally DON’T do that is because: a.) they’re reminding themselves who they’re with and quite possibly but not necessarily relishing the difference OR b.) they’re trying to get into it because they’re not. Into it, that is. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. Trust me.
It’s true…saying someone’s name other than in your initial greeting is a sign of intimacy … so much so that it is often used in sales tactics for that particular reason. It’s a sign of closeness, friendship, and just by saying it, it forms a bond with that person. Who knew a name was so personal?.. yes it’s your name but it’s meant for other people to use right??? I don’t know, I just feel weird when people know my name or speak it when they don’t really know me and just see it on a nametag. What’s in a name? A name.. or how someone says it, can tell you a lot. If someone uses a person’s name more in conversation say or to call them or to tell them something (other than when they used it in the initial contact) rather than saying a generic term like “hey” “yo” or just avoiding using a noun… I duno it’s weird.
Long story short.. if you don’t know me well.. don’t keep dropping my name in conversation unless you think I’m into you… you’ll freak me out. N if you want to hide intimacy with someone.. refrain from saying their name, especially a mod vers. Ppl notice. If you want to enforce a bond and strengthen it… say it like she’s Beyonce singing the instructions to you… say her goddamn name!
If any one faculty of our nature may be called more wonderful than the rest, I do think it is memory. There seems something more speakingly incomprehensible in the powers, the failures, the inequalities of memory, than in any other of our intelligences. The memory is sometimes so retentive, so serviceable, so obedient; at others, so bewildered and so weak; and at others again, so tyrannic, so beyond control! We are, to be sure, a miracle every way; but our powers of recollecting and of forgetting do seem peculiarly past finding out.
- Jane Austen, Mansfield Park
Love Aaj Kal isn’t an accurate representation of love in today’s age. It’s still just a hindi movie. If it was real life, Jai (Saif Ali Khan) would have found another girl and said to himself – “eff Meera (Deepika). That was the past. I left her, it couldn’t have been that great anyways. Life goes on.” You really think, that he would fly out to India to see a girl who he thinks is married? He wouldn’t even have attended her wedding in the first place in order to realize she was married. Would any guy swallow his pride like that? Would any guy even remember that what he had with that particular girl was special? Would any guy even realize what special is? He wouldn’t.. because he would have forgotten. Even barring the fact that he remembered a few good memories and feelings, he would have said that it was just memories… nothing to build a future on, nothing to make someone stay with somebody. I used to think Love Aaj Kal was an accurate representation of love today because he chooses career over love, he thinks with his head instead of his heart. What Deepika in the movie did… letting him go to his dream job, not telling him that she left her husband…that was awesome. It’s true, if she had told him, he would have come to her, but then his whole life he would have regretted it. Regretted not going after what he wanted in life. I agree with the movie on the part that in the end, once his dream was realized, he wouldn’t have found it as great as he once thought. He would have become depressed and pondered the meaning of life and all that… but I don’t think he would have gone back to Meera. She was the girl of his dreams, the true love of his life, but he just wouldn’t have. True love doesn’t prevail, humans are too fickle for that to happen.
I’m not the girl with the nice cheekbones and smile that is calm and sweet and serene and beautiful. The kind of girl that you can just snap a candid shot of from a beach day together and be proud to put it up in your bedroom in black and white in a silver frame. I’m not the girl with a bunch of friends that goes out and has a ton of fun and parties like no tomorrow. The kind of girl that is the center of attention, the life of the party, the girl that gives spontaneous lap dances to her boyfriend while all the other guys think “damn he’s a lucky guy”. I’m not the girl that has a good head on her shoulders and strives for what she wants in life (horrible, right?). I’m not the girl who cares about big moments, big moments where you can snap a picture and say “I/we did that” and then only live by those memories.
I’m not that girl.
There are lots of girls out there. I’m not like them. I’m sorry.
hahahahhaha love that one it’s hilariousss
Men and Women are equal. You want to know why? We’re equal because we’re both dumb. We’re made for each other (um, no offence to Gay’s or Lesbians – love you! - I’m just being general here.. male characteristics and female characteristics shall I say!) and yet we are so incompatible it’s not even funny.
Men are stupid. Women are crazy. It’s totally true. Men run away from problems, they don’t think about all the things that women do, they live life in the moment. Women can’t live life in the moment because they’re too insecure and too busy worrying about everything and want to keep confronting problems even though doing so won’t make anything any better. Men are actually little babies that can’t handle the truth, and women are programmed to tell everyone how they feel every second of the day.
You know what, I think that people are silly. I think that out of a life span of 80 years or more, a couple bad years aren’t so bad if you’re going to have 60+ together and happy. I would rather be mad at my partner in life for weeks on end than not have a partner in life. I don’t get divorce or breaking up with someone. It doesn’t make any sense to me because, the person that you’re breaking up with or divorcing like… you loved that person. (I’m not talking about when ppl divorce because of like… domestic abuse n things like that I just mean regular “irreconcilable differences”) I don’t think love goes away. To me it’s like… whatever problems you’re going to have with one person, you’re going to have that with another anyway in some shape or form, so why not stick it out with the one that you’ve been with for so long and you know and .. love? Everyone goes through problems.. everyone has ups and downs. It’s natural to feel confused or to hate someone and to be weak. The point is to stick things through. The point is to KNOW THAT YOU LOVE THE PERSON. N that’s ALL. As long as you love someone… you can get through anything. Even financial problems! The world is a big place.. just dump the shame, the ego, relax and breathe. Life goes on. Life is important. DON’T SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF. Trust each other. Trust yourself, trust your BASIC instincts.
Yes people change, but so what. The world keeps spinning and at the end of it all, you just have to remember what it was about that person that you loved and hold that and run with it till the finish line. The prize is worth it. Fall in love everyday (with the same person). Stop yelling at each other. Stop being disappointed. Stop being insecure. Stop being paranoid. For me, everyday is a gift with the people around me.. even if it’s a bad day and I’ve fought and I hate them… at least I have them to yell at and to hate. I’m just so glad for everyone I have in my life. I’m so glad for the life that I have. Just relax, and breatheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee, at the end of the day, it’s all in God’s hands so there’s nothing for me to worry about. Whatever will happen will happen… but where there’s a will there’s a way. Goodnite everyone. I’m totally sleeping pill deprived so forgive me for the rambling nonsensical post.
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