You’re Such A Pretty Girl convo:
Here is the convo that single attractive girls seem to have a lot:
Man: “A pretty girl like you must have a boyfriend…”
Woman: “No, actually I don’t.” **thinks in head..um does this mean I’m not pretty?**
Man: “What, that’s insane… are you just picky or are all the men you’re meeting blind?”
Woman: **thinks in head…WTF kind of question is that um… so I’m not picky and wow that’s such a negative word to use just because I’m single and want to find someone who isn’t a cheating, lying, unattractive, uneducated, immature and un motivated person… and no the guys I am meeting aren’t blind they ARE into me (duh) and I might be into them but that doesn’t mean I want a boyfriend or a relationship!…Hmm, wait but did THEY want to be in a relationship with me?? uh..damn I never really thought about that… I guess they didn’t I wonder why..wait… SOooo does this mean he’s saying I’m not cool because I’m single and should be snapped by now and if I’m not there’s something wrong with me???** …
Says: “No I’ve just, been busy… focusing on other things like my career and life… actually I haven’t even THOUGHT about having a boyfriend, I haven’t really missed having one (**because I see soo many great examples of ppl in healthy and happy relationships out there lol psh**), it’s just been a lot of FUN being able to do whatever I want!! I meet a lot of cool people, I ENJOY meeting new people and I’m always open to new experiences…” **thinks in head, great now I sound like a slut who wants to mess around and never get married, and he’s trying to hit on me and I really don’t want him to.. quickly try to cover up**
Says: “Actually, I really haven’t had the time to date or anything I’ve been SUPER busy.. you know just NO TIME WHATSOEVER to meet up with people, I’ve been REALLY BUSY, like I’m busy ALL THE TIME.” **fervently prays he gets the hint**
Man: **thinks in head.. ooh she wants to get down n dirtyyy no strings attached yaaa buddayyy yeehaw** “Hey we should hook up sometime grab some coffee or something you gotta keep a night open for me!”
Woman: Yeah. Sometime. Great.
You won't post this up for the public to see but that's okay.
ReplyDeleteYou're pretty far off in the way you see the world and guys.
Just because a guy is hitting on you does not mean he wants to get in your pants. Some guys are pretty self confident and are able to be the 'joker' charming guy.
I won't say much more because like I said you won't post this because you won't like to hear you're wrong and you won't reply. If you're up for it lets discuss this issue further.
First of all, thank you for visiting my blog and for taking the time to comment. Not all my posts reflect my direct viewpoint on an issue.. they are sometimes simply observations or inspired by conversations I have with other people, books that I read or magazine articles that I then exaggerate because it makes for better reading or just to reflect a different viewpoint. I'm a regular girl that meets regular, nice and wonderful men and women that I choose not to write about because what I feel for certain people I meet is magical, special and very, very private ;). Thank you for your concern!
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