Soul Mate?

Read this little blurb from a Divorced Man:

http://www.oddcrunch.com/divorced-man-words/0

His blog: http://geraldrogers.com - He's a motivational speaker or something now but regardless his words have definitely touched a lot of people as his post went viral.

Why can't we all just be in love happily ever after :) ?

Have you found your soulmate or are you still looking?  Do you believe in soul mates?  Do you think a soulmate is necessarily a lover that you will be with for the rest of your life or can it be like - just a soul that you connect with?

Can a soulmate and the love of your life be two different things?