C'est La Vie

Read this little blurb from a Divorced Man:

http://www.oddcrunch.com/divorced-man-words/0

His blog: http://geraldrogers.com - He's a motivational speaker or something now but regardless his words have definitely touched a lot of people as his post went viral.

Why can't we all just be in love happily ever after :) ?

Have you found your soulmate or are you still looking?  Do you believe in soul mates?  Do you think a soulmate is necessarily a lover that you will be with for the rest of your life or can it be like - just a soul that you connect with?

Can a soulmate and the love of your life be two different things?

This weekend, I had a randomly awesome conversation at Starbucks with someone.  I was sitting there working and I see someone who I often ran into but didn't know very well personally.

It was kind of a "ships in the sea", "strangers on a train" moment where we had a very genuine and honest conversation.   We discussed a life passion, we discussed where we really wanted to be, we discussed food, relationships, heartbreak, society.  I was told "boy it must be hard for you to find someone to date here" which I completely whole heartedly agree with :P hahaha, not many people these days have any insight or thought processes on what they're doing or what they think.  It's like they're just blindly marching on succumbing to the pressures of society.  We discussed the effect that alcohol has on young individuals (cough such as myself cough) these days.

This weekend, I kissed my friend's baby.  He's adorable.  We sat on her and her husband's patio with multiple of our friends and had some bbq'd chicken, food, spirits and conversation.