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I have no idea what this question is asking. Why not me?… to do what?2. Am I nice?
I think I am. I’m not naturally as nice as some people because I’m kind of sarcastic but I’m not fake when I’m being nice to someone.. if I’m being nice to you I mean it.3. Am I doing what I really want to do?
Definitely not.4. What am I grateful for?
My family.5. What’s missing in my life?
Love and freedom.6. Am I honest?
No. I’m honest in the sense that I don’t lie to people (other than parents…they don’t count all kids lie to parents eventually), but I’m not honest about how I feel and I don’t always tell everything about how I’m feeling to people (sounds funny coming from someone who blogs about everything and anything but there you go I’m a walking oxymoron). I do what’s best for me, or I try to at all times so if it’s in my best interests to not tell you that I think you’re a horrible person, or the most amazing thing that’s ever happened to me than I won’t. If that’s lying then so be it. There are a handful of people in this world who I will never lie to and tell too much to!7. Do I listen to others?
Not really. I don’t listen to what other people think I should do or how I should behave, I do whatever I think is right, and I guess this is why I am always getting in trouble in my family lol. It might technically be the “wrong” thing to do but if I will live without regretting it, even if it’s the “wrong” thing, then for me it was the right thing to do. Does that make sense? For example, if I was lactose intolerant maybe it wouldn’t be correct for me to have an entire bucket of ice cream, but I would rather eat the bucket of ice cream because I wanted to than wake up the next day wondering what flavour it was.8. Do I work hard?
No9. Do I help others?
Not enough.10. What do I need to change about myself?
Number 9. I should dedicate more time to helping other people. My family as well as other citizens of the Earth :)11. Have I hurt others?
Yes. A lot…all the time.12. Do I complain?
All the time. I’m ashamed to say I’m a whiny person haha but in certain situations I don’t complain. I will always complain if I feel cold, otherwise I’d say I’m pretty easy going. I don’t complain about food when I’m travelling or accommodations.13. What’s next for me?
Being happy and having fun are the only two things on my list of things to do. These are the only goals of my life, beyond this I have no idea and no plans.14. Do I have fun?
How funny that this was the next question. Yes! As depressing as I can get sometimes I always have fun every single day. (As long as I have a book or a good laugh life is pretty awesome so I’m pretty easy to please…at the present time I’d like to thank my bff’s Youtube and Kobo).15. Have I seized opportunities?
Sometimes I am not prepared for the opportunities that arise and that’s horrible because luck is 90 percent preparation and 10 percent chance! However, what I have the capability to do, I do seize..yes. Example: I once went downtown with my sister and friend to meet someone in the afternoon and suddenly an opportunity arose to be a part of something. I said yes no questions asked… I stayed up all night in downtown Vancouver outside in the cold , rainy weather without an umbrella or proper clothes, alone and not knowing a single person there or how I was going to get home and went to work the next morning at 7am straight just so I could take part.16. Do I care about others?
Too much.17. Do I spend enough time with my family?
You can never spend enough time with your family. Never. Everyone will realize this at one point or another.18. Am I open-minded?
Yes19. Have I seen enough of the world?
Same as #17, you can never see enough of the world.20. Do I judge others?
Oh I love this question. I never judge other people I firmly believe their choices and decisions are between them and God. Unless they are a murderer or other such condemned individual.21. Do I take risks?
Yes.22. What is my purpose?
To make other people smile? To hopefully raise good children.23. What is my biggest fear?
Being alone.24. How can I conquer that fear?
I think you can’t. If anyone knows how to please let me know.25. Do I thank people enough?
Blah blah blahhhh I’m getting bored and so are you I’m sure… lets skip this one.26. Am I successful?
Not yet27. What am I ashamed of?
I won’t tell it’s personal and it involves someone else.28. Do I annoy others?
Ask my sisters and my best friends haha.29. What are my dreams?
To do what I like to do for the rest of my life.30. Am I positive?
I’M SKIPPING QUESTIONS I DON’T LIKE33. Does everything happen for a reason?
Yes, always. I believe in fate and destiny and there is always something to be learnt from things that happen in this world.34. What can I do to change the world?
Be the best me that I can be.42. Do I care what others think about me?
Not enough to stop being myself.50. What was the toughest time in my life?
It started on November 15th 2009 and hasn’t ended yet. I’ll let you know when it does…51. What was the easiest time in my life?
It started on Feb 26th or 27th 2007.53. What was the craziest thing I did?
Fall in love.54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?
Fall in love again.55. Do I procrastinate?
I’ll answer this question laterrrrr.56. What is my greatest regret?
Not calling to speak to my grandparents enough.57. What has had the greatest impact on my life?
Love.58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?
My mother and her mother.59. Do I stand up for myself?
To the death.61. Do I hold grudges?
Only one.63. Do I listen to my heart?
Too much!?66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?
If you live in the past isn’t it the present?67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?
Yes. I care too much about people.68. Do I forgive myself?
Yes always.69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?
I can thankfully say that thought never crosses my mind.70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?
Yes, unfortunately I’m kind of a morbid person.OK THAT WAS SO NOT A FUN QUIZ. HOPEFULLY THIS NEXT ONE IS FUNNER.
Hey everyone!
I'm in Singapore at the moment and will be here for some time... just wanted to let my lovely anonymous readers know in case they missed me or wondered why I haven't posted! I hope you have! I do tend to post erratically as I'm sure you've gathered from the archive because I guess at times when I have too much on my mind I find it hard to write publicly.
Anywho I watched Eat, Pray, Love on the plane and I went into it thinking I was going to hate the movie and was just planning on watching it because the book has such a fan following. I loved the movie! I shall post more on it when I get the chance but for now... it's time to be with my family here in Singapore (read: eat... is it wrong that I'm in Singapore and all I want to eat right now is Mcdonalds?! lol omg I'm addicted). See you all later... eat, pray and love everyone :)
“The only people who should really sin are the people who can sin and grin” – Ogden Nash
This is probably not how you expected this to open but: Remember how everyone used to go gaga for Jessica Alba? I was never that into her…sure Jessica was hot but she was always so BLAND at the same time. What’s her personality? Can she crack a joke? Have I ever seen her make an ugly face and still look pretty? Jessica Alba is vanilla. Kim Kardashian is HOT HOT HOT yeah (body wise) but that’s pretty much all she is… the ENTIRE PACKAGE WINNING HOTTEST CHICK AWARD has always gone to Eva Longoria Parker. That little lady is 5ft 2 inches of straight dynamite.
Kim has always been hot, no question but Eva is hot AND CUTE!
BAM. Dynamite. Need I say more? Ok so her hotness.. undeniable. Now the big question on everyone’s lips is: Why would any guy cheat (cheat= emotionally for sure/physically maybe whatever) on someone like…this:
For THIS!?!?……………
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It’s because THIS was not Tony’s wife. Simple as that. If Tony had married Erin Barry (she’s pretty fine too), he would have cheated on her with someone like Eva.. (if Eva was a lady of easy virtue). It’s sad yeah for sure, but I find it so funny that people are like “wow Tony is such an idiot because Eva is so hot”. Come on people, it doesn’t matter if Eva is hot, or if Eva has the best personality ever, or if Eva is a freaking goddess from heaven. Forbidden fruit is always more alluring. I think it has everything to do with his own timing and his own personal growth. I don’t believe that it has anything to do with love or that if he truly loved Eva he wouldn’t have done it and that they weren’t meant to be. Timing is everything.
I’m starting to think that it’s not natural for humans to be monogamous. In some way or another, whether it be through sexting or just plain sexing; I just don’t believe humans are monogamous by nature. Maybe some of you always knew this but I honestly believed that we were, that one man and one woman could be faithful to each other. My mindset has completely changed. That’s not to say that there aren’t relationships out there that have been and will continue to be monogamous for life (who are you and tell me your story!); all I’m saying is that it just might not be in our natural instincts and is a struggle. Sexual monogamy is having one sexual partner for life, forever! For example, a goose will not mate with anyone else, even if their partner dies. That is just not natural for humans! You and I both know that. Just because I’m saying this does not mean that I DON’T want a monogamous relationship. I DO! I wouldn’t be able to live with someone who had 100’s of text msgs sent to another woman while lying to me and not texting me, emotionally cheating on me with someone else, or having intercourse with another woman. Yea… couldn’t live with that. Team Eva.
Why do people cheat? It’s all economics. Costs… benefits… A male would rather look at your boobs and be caught checking them out than NOT looking and NOT seeing anything! I don’t believe that humans honestly think of the costs. Was it worth it? Was it really worth it…throwing away 3 years of marriage? Jesse James cheated on Sandra Bullock… he cried on tv, said he was sorry and then moved on with his life. Tiger… moved on. Tony… will move on. I just don’t think guys really care. 100% Tony isn’t sitting there regretting that he carried on the affair… he’s sitting there thinking “Why the eff didn’t I delete those messages!?” haha.
Maybe Eva and Tony weren’t meant to be and it was fate, and maybe they will be happier forever with other people and they’ll look back ten years later and be grateful that this happened because now they’ve found their “true love”… or maybe it has nothing to do with other people and everything to do with their own selves and their own personal growth and their own timing. Maybe people would be happier if they weren’t told how their lives were supposed to be: married to someone of the opposite sex, have children, live together forever, white picket fence, etc etc. One thing is certain though, tradition survives for a reason and hopefully one day I’ll find out why and I can come on this blog and say hey…marriage is awesome and here is why you should get married. Omg that is SUCH A SCARY THOUGHT. I’m going now.. bye!!!!!!!!!!!
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